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I’m 21 years old and I have never had a relationship. When I was younger I was convinced it’s not a big deal and that eventually I’ll find someone. But now it’s been 21 years. I don’t want to base my worth on another person but god I feel so unloved and ugly. I just wanna love somebody and have them love me back.
21 is far from being an old age. Besides the myth that the moment you find someone who loves you is the starting point of loving yourself too – sadly is false. It seems you’re looking for a relationship mostly to heal your low self-esteem; again, sadly, this won’t work. People with insecurities
hate themselves whether they’re in a relationship or not. I would recommend working with your issues first before dating since it could hurt the both of you. Good luck♥️