When I was 14(male) me and my 7(male) year old cousin did sexual things now I feel regret for what we did this was like 3 years ago and I want to apologize and let him know that what we did is wrong. I feel more messed up because I should have known that what we were doing was wrong at the time but at the time I feel like I had no moral filter. And I know if I come out I will be seen as the bad guy for being 7 years older than him and all my family members will push me away. I just need to tell him that what i did was bad and apologize because I don’t want him to realize it on his own that what we did is wrong I feel it will be better if I tell him myself . I just want to let him know that I will NEVER do anything like that again. The thing is idk when I will see him again we live far apart and it’s eating me up inside can some one help me?
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Hey, you’re not alone. There are lot of people did sexual things with their cousins when they were kids. As a kid we don’t know what we were doing but things change as we grow up. You can maybe just drop him the message so you won’t regret.